High Performers Aren’t Born. They’re Built.

No one walks into the real world already closing deals, leading teams, or owning the room. That level of presence? It’s earned. Built through reps, mistakes, and intentional growth, not something you’re just born with.

The whole “born leader” myth? It’s lazy thinking. It sidelines future high performers before they even get started. And on the flip side, too many companies promote people into leadership and just hope they rise to the occasion. That’s not leadership development—that’s a setup for failure.

Presence is a skill. Leadership is a craft. And both require real investment.

The importance of a growth mindset

While possessing natural gifts is a great starting point, talent can only take someone so far. Research shows that when people adopt a growth mindset, they consistently perform better than those who focus on their innate strengths, as they tend to be more resilient and persistent in achieving their goals.

The truth is that high achievement and leadership skills can be taught and learned. People can even develop the unshakeable confidence and powerful presence of a charismatic leader over time. It just takes repeated practice, a willingness to accept feedback from others, self-awareness, and the ability to regulate one’s own emotions.

Additionally, people become more adept at communication by seeking others’ input and learning to speak more clearly. They become better listeners by repeatedly tabling their thoughts and focusing on what others say. With practice, these skills become easier and more habitual.

Earn it. Own it. Command it.

Leadership isn’t an inherent trait you either possess or lack. Instead, it should be approached with a growth mindset. With training, coaching, and support, even people who may never have envisioned themselves as leaders can develop the skills, confidence, and presence that command respect and signal authority.

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