Too many people are stuck in the waiting room. Waiting for permission, for recognition, for someone else to call them a leader. But leadership is not a title, and it is not something handed to you. It is claimed. It is how you show up when no one is watching, when there is no applause, and when it would be easier to stay quiet.
If you are still waiting to be picked, you are already playing small. That voice in your head — “Am I good enough? Do I even belong here?” — there is no doubt. That is hesitation wearing a disguise.
Leadership is a daily decision
Leadership does not live in the corner office or behind a job title. It shows up in the everyday moments — when you speak up, lean in, take responsibility, and move with intent. It’s the decision to act without waiting for someone else to tell you it is your turn. So, if you have been holding back, here is your sign: stop waiting. Start leading.
How to lead from any seat
You can lead from wherever you are. It starts with deciding your voice matters. Stop shrinking into the background because you think someone more “senior” has all the answers. Trust me, many people in power are figuring it out as they go. What they have isn’t magic, it’s confidence. And confidence can be cultivated.
- Start by saying what you see. If something feels off, ask questions. If you have an idea, share it. Your perspective could be the game-changer others are searching for.
- Act without waiting for the green light. Leadership isn’t about needing explicit permission; it’s about identifying what needs to be done and doing it thoughtfully.
- Don’t hesitate to support others with bold confidence. Great leaders uplift those around them. You don’t need a title to encourage, mentor, or amplify someone else’s voice.
Step into your power
The moment you stop waiting for someone to “pick” you is the moment you step into your own power. You don’t need an official seat at the table to lead — you just need to believe in your ability to make an impact.
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Paul Bramson is renowned as a powerhouse on keynote stages and in training arenas. He is widely regarded as being one of the most impactful speakers, trainers and C-suite coaches in the world today. Paul is recognized as a leading authority and thought leader in the areas of communication, leadership and sales boasting media mentions in Forbes, Fast Company, Fortune, BuiltIn, Yahoo, and MSN. With an extensive 25-year tenure, Paul has continually ignited and empowered professionals, leaders, and teams across all echelons. His ability to captivate and engage audiences originates from an authentic zeal, unique aptitudes, and an unyielding dedication to professional and personal enhancement. Paul's first book, "Connecting Like A PRO©: Unleash Your Superpower" will be released on June 11, 2025 on Amazon.